Deep, focused relationship work that shifts patterns now

The Options

Couples leave these intensives feeling clearer, steadier, and more connected — because the work goes to the root.

Each option is intentionally designed to meet couples at different levels of need, availability, and depth. Whether your relationship is in crisis or you’re choosing immersive work to prevent further distance, these intensives create space for meaningful change.

All tiers include access to a five-part foundational workshop before we begin, so you’re not walking into the work cold. You arrive with shared language, insight, and readiness — allowing our time together to go deeper, faster, and with more care.

Tier One: Foundations & Integration Intensive

A powerful reset with continued support

What’s included:

• 6 hours of immersive relationship work, including:

  • An introductory session to orient the work

  • Two individual sessions to explore personal attachment stories and patterns

• Three follow-up sessions, scheduled weekly after the intensive

• Access to a five-part foundational workshop before we begin
  

This option is ideal for couples who want both depth and integration. The extended immersive session allows us to identify the root of your cycle, understand how each partner’s story shows up in conflict, and begin practicing new ways of responding.

The follow-up sessions provide space to slow things down, apply real tools, and support the changes as they move into daily life — so the work doesn’t stay theoretical, but becomes lived and embodied.

Couples leave this tier with:

• A clear understanding of their relational cycle

• Language for what’s actually happening beneath conflict

• Tools they can use immediately

• A steadier sense of connection and direction

Tier Two: Two-Day Deep Dive Intensive

Immersive work for couples ready to go deeper

What’s included:

• Two full days of immersive couples work

• A deep exploration of each partner’s individual story and how it shapes the relationship

• Structured tools to interrupt cycles and rebuild emotional safety

• Access to a five-part foundational workshop before the intensive

This tier is designed for couples who want uninterrupted time to focus fully on their relationship. Over two days, we move beneath surface conflict and work directly with the patterns that have kept you stuck.

There is space for emotional repair, practice, and reflection — allowing insight to turn into real relational shifts.

This option is especially supportive for couples experiencing growing emotional distance, repeated conflict, or moments where the relationship feels fragile but still deeply valued.

Tier Three: Three-Day Customized Immersion

For crisis, complexity, or major relational transitions

What’s included:

• Three days of immersive relationship work

• Foundational couples work and deep relational assessment

• Individual story exploration for both partners

• Practical tools to slow cycles and increase safety

• A customized third day focused on your relationship’s specific needs

  • Examples include affair recovery, betrayal repair, or major relational crossroads

• Access to a five-part foundational workshop before the intensive

This tier is designed for couples navigating high-impact moments — affairs, betrayals, or situations where the relationship feels at a turning point.

The third day allows us to tailor the work to your unique circumstances, creating a plan that supports healing, clarity, and next steps with intention rather than urgency.

Couples choose this level when they want depth, focus, and a path forward that feels thoughtful and grounded.

Frequently Asked Questions

“We’ve tried couples therapy before, and it didn’t work for us.”

Many couples arrive here saying this and it makes sense. Traditional couples therapy often stays at the level of talking about feelings without clearly interrupting the patterns that keep repeating. Insight alone doesn’t change a relationship if the cycle stays intact. This work is different. Couples intensives are structured, intentional, and focused on identifying the root of your relational patterns — not just processing emotions. We work directly with the moments your relationship goes off-track and practice new ways of responding in real time. The goal isn’t to analyze endlessly.
It’s to understand the pattern, soften it, and begin changing it with tools you can actually use.

“Our schedules are too busy right now.”

For many couples, busyness isn’t the problem... it’s the backdrop. Careers, parenting, transitions, and responsibilities often leave very little room for sustained weekly sessions. Over time, the relationship becomes the place where everything waits. Couples intensives are designed for this reality.

Instead of trying to carve out a few hours every week, you set aside intentional time — one, two, or three days — to focus fully on your relationship. Many couples find this approach more realistic, more contained, and ultimately more effective. Making space for this work isn’t about doing more.
It’s about choosing what matters.

“We’re not sure we can afford this.”
This is a very real and understandable concern.

An intensive is an investment — and it’s also worth holding it alongside the cost of not addressing what’s happening. Separation and divorce often come with significant emotional, financial, and logistical costs that far exceed the price of this work. Many couples also notice something else: the investment in an intensive is often less than what they spent on their wedding day — yet it’s focused on supporting the marriage itself, not just the celebration of it.
This work is about learning how to resolve resentment, interrupt damaging cycles, and build a relationship that can actually carry you forward. For many couples, that investment becomes foundational — not just for this season, but for years to come.

Choosing this work isn’t about spending money.
It’s about deciding what kind of future you want to protect.

“Is this work done in person or via telehealth?”

Both options are available, depending on what best supports your relationship.

Couples intensives can be offered in person or through secure telehealth. Telehealth intensives are structured with care — including pacing, breaks, and support for emotional regulation — and many couples are surprised by how effective and connected the work feels, even from a distance.

In-person intensives are available and encouraged in Colorado and Massachussetts.

During the consultation, we’ll talk through what option best fits your needs, location, and the level of support you’re looking for.

“What happens after the intensive ends?”

Change doesn’t stop when the intensive ends, that’s when integration begins.

Depending on the tier you choose, follow-up sessions may be included or recommended to help support what shifts during the intensive. These sessions allow space to apply tools, navigate real-life moments, and reinforce new patterns so the work doesn’t stay isolated in the experience itself.

The goal is sustainable change, not a one-time conversation.

“Is this only for couples in crisis?”

No. Couples intensives support both crisis moments and relationships that feel emotionally distant or stuck over time.

Some couples come in after an affair or major rupture. Others arrive because the connection has slowly faded, conflict feels repetitive, or they don’t want things to get worse. This work meets your relationship where it is, urgent or simply asking for more care.

Take the next step with intention.

Schedule a consultation to explore whether a couples intensive is the right fit for your relationship.